Getting over a break up really depends on 3 things.
A) How willing are you to let go
B) The length and type of relationship you had
C) The Reasons of the break up and it’s a process that sometimes takes time and sometimes is just almost immediately.
So the question is How to get over a break up?
Well before I keep writing let me tell you that there’s a difference between getting
over the break up and
getting over your ex.
You can be over the break up but not over your ex. Now getting over a
break up is simply that, getting over whatever happened between you two,
the reasons of the break up and the fact that you’re no longer in a
relationship once you got over it you can get over your ex so it is a
process.
First thing to do is to get rid of every negative feeling you have.
Disappointment, Anger, Sadness, Frustration, etc… Get a punching back
if is necessary. Take the time to process all your emotions. Once you’re
over your emotions and got over the break up is time to get over your
ex. At this point it should be easier because you’re on non-emotional
zone so do whatever you need to do to get over your ex. What I think it
works the best is unfriend him because the least thing you need is to
know about him when you’re trying to get over him, so the less you think
about him the more and the faster you get over him.
Keep yourself busy. Make no room to think about your ex
This is my favorite because is so efficient the busier you keep the more
things flow so get yourself something to do on your spare time or even
better find something new and exciting a to do and have the chance to
get to know new people.
Pamper yourself
Do you know that feeling of wearing a revenge dress? Makes you feel
pretty damn good right, well this is your time my friend to pamper
yourself and get ready to get someone else attention. So indulge
yourself, make an appointment to your favorite beauty spa, go shopping,
get a weekend get away with your girl friends, Make it all about
yourself!
Dating therapy
Let me tell you what’s great about dating again. Every time go
out on a date someone reminds you what a awesome gal you are. You meet
interesting guys with potential for more dates and have a great time.
Take your time, sometimes it’s a process but once you’re out of the emotional zone everything gets easier.
xo’s
Chickstyle